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    What I Wore: Mom 2.0 Summit 2013

    A quick story before I show you how awesome my hair looked on Saturday morning:

    Dove was the official title sponsor for the Mom 2.0 Summit this year. On the first morning of the conference Lisa Ling, Jess Weiner and Unilever Vice President Rob Candelino introduced Dove’s newest program to empower young girls and women called Girls Unstoppable

    The mission of Girls Unstoppable is promote positive self-esteem in young girls and women so that they - or WE - feel that we can do anything. So many women stop doing their favorite activities or are intimidated simply based on their looks. I’m going to write more on this later but  you get the gist: Girls are beautiful. Women are beautiful. We need to support one another and ourselves. 


    So, I’m sitting at the conference tweeting the hell out of this conversation. I’m thrilled when Lisa Ling mentions young women running for student government and taking positions in Washington and running for office. I was all huzzah! This is fantastic! We’re all unstoppable! Let’s stop being critical of one another and lift each other up. I wanted to find a way to reach out to Dove to work with them on girls empowerment when it comes to running for office because that’s what I do. I was excited.


    It was great.


    Fast forward to yesterday when I was scrolling through some photos of myself during Mom 2.0. I was not unstoppable. In fact I was so completely against what Girls Unstoppable stands for that I was devastated by my own poor self-image.


    I looked fat. I hated my arms. I didn’t look as strong as I felt after six months of three times a week Bikram. In one angle of a photo I looked like the size of a house. Why was my face so fat? I will be wearing a cardigan and long pants all summer. I might even rock a giant sweater tunic thing. Anything to take the attention away from my...well...ample body.


    I hated myself not only for my looks but because I felt so strongly and upset about my reactions. Would anyone else notice? Probably not. But I would notice and now I have this permanent image of me putting the ASS in MASSIVE.


    Days after thinking that women are beautiful and we can do anything I judged the crap out of myself. I did exactly what I hoped that other woman wouldn’t do to themselves. It wasn’t fun.


    So! I tell you that “quick” (HAAAAAAAA) story before showing you some of what I wore during Mom 2.0 because here is a photo of me in my bathing suit:



    The bathing suit that I removed the straps from on Thursday afternoon as I sauntered around the pool with drinks and talking to my friends. No one gave a shit about my boobs or my butt or my thighs or the terrible scarring on my chest after a severe allergic reaction. But! BUT! Everyone really liked that bathing suit (it's from Old Navy), that’s what. I need to remember that what I notice about myself very few will notice. Am I always happy with myself? HELL no. But do I want to feel better about myself? HELL yes. I am unstoppable. I need to remember that.


    Now let's look at some pretty necklaces and my hair.




    Dress: Old Navy.

    Necklace: JCREW Factory

    Earrings: JCREW Factory



    Dress: Old Navy

    Cardigan: Forever 21

    Head Scarf: Stolen from Susan Wagner at Mom 2.0 2010

    Necklace: Anthropologie



    Dress: Old Navy

    Necklace: Stella & Dot


    And my hair because it was epic:



    Hair: Genetics/God/California



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    Reader Comments (4)

    You are unstoppable, because you posted this post, see?

    I think California is especially good to us. (Well, except for that one thing about that one situation, but I'm not going to think about that anymore.)

    I was so glad to have that time with you, unstoppable Heather.

    May 7, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterLaurie

    I applaud the Dove campaign, but easier said than done on some days for all of us. You looked gorgeous and super-stylish every day at Mom 2.0. I wanted to copy every outfit you had on, accessories included!

    May 7, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterKG

    I love your clothes and style, and especially how you rock being a curvy girl in a bathing suit!

    May 8, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterCheney

    You look so strong and confident in your pictures! I admire you!

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